What’s up with the Hookup?

It seems that Online Dating has become the most common if not the only resource for dating nowadays. Unless of course you want to consider meeting that special someone in Church,a  local MeetUp groups or a random encounter in daily life. Let’s get real though–what are the chances of meeting that one special person, the[…]

Little Red Riding Hood Syndrome

“I am not a fair weather friend”… said the wolf to little red riding hood, as he slipped his arm around her shoulders and handed her a cup of tea… Margaret was astounded and angry at her own foolishness for falling for her latest boyfriends smooth lines. She was a sophisticated, well educated and quite[…]

“Love” On A Sunday Afternoon

The continued search for signs of intelligent life through meeting, greeting and all the preliminary rituals of dating love on a Sunday afternoon. We are so action oriented that we think of love as something to do. With Valentines day soon approaching, I thought some deep hearted comments about love, dating and the appropriate-and inappropriate[…]

Rules of Engagement

The old adage of something or another being one’s “Bread and Butter” has been around for a long time. Perhaps this is simply another soon to become ancient jewel, its prolific meaning to be covered in cobwebs, lost to the English language forever. However, in relationship therapy, the mainstay of dynamics of relationship, sex, intimacy[…]

The Real Difference Between a Great Lover and the Not So Much Guy!

It is a rainy Sunday afternoon and I am sitting down to write on this very important subject of, ‘What makes your lover great.’ FYI: Also mentioned in this blog are safe-sex practices for those in the dating and mating scene. Many often take sexual health risks without understanding the consequences of unsafe sex. If[…]

HOW TO RUIN A RELAITONSHIP IN 8 DATES!

This particular tale of woe is told from the point of view of a woman. However, this is not a gender specific problem and just as many women make many of the unforgivable dating mistakes listed below as men do. It should have been one of those great stories that Sally could have told her grandchildren about. Mr. Clueless and Sally had[…]

10 Things Not to Say or Do on a First Date

While sitting at lunch with a long time woman friend of mine the other day, I overheard a conversation going on in the booth behind me. A man in his early 50’s was complaining to his male friend that he didn’t understand why he couldn’t meet a woman. I wondered if he was part of[…]