Rules of Engagement

The old adage of something or another being one’s “Bread and Butter” has been around for a long time. Perhaps this is simply another soon to become ancient jewel, its prolific meaning to be covered in cobwebs, lost to the English language forever. However, in relationship therapy, the mainstay of dynamics of relationship, sex, intimacy[…]

What Is Normal Sexuality in Marriage?

Everyone wonders about this. Are our friends having more sex than we do? Do any other couples have this problem where one partner has high desire, and the other one has little to none? There must be something really wrong with us! Everyone wants sex 24/7 don’t they? The answer to these most commonly asked[…]

HOW TO RUIN A RELAITONSHIP IN 8 DATES!

This particular tale of woe is told from the point of view of a woman. However, this is not a gender specific problem and just as many women make many of the unforgivable dating mistakes listed below as men do. It should have been one of those great stories that Sally could have told her grandchildren about. Mr. Clueless and Sally had[…]

On the Cusp of Compromise, I Slipped and Fell to Living Hell

Whether lovers, husband and wife, or in various stages of relationship, there are often many obstacles that provide an opportunity for growth. Many of the couples and individuals that present in my office, are dealing with issues of having “fallen out of love.” They state that they are “not in love” with their partner any[…]