What’s up with the Hookup?

It seems that Online Dating has become the most common if not the only resource for dating nowadays. Unless of course you want to consider meeting that special someone in Church,a  local MeetUp groups or a random encounter in daily life. Let’s get real though–what are the chances of meeting that one special person, the[…]

Fear Based Love

I often hear the term, “”… usually in the context of conversations about “things just didn’t work out”. These “things”, usually attributed to the other person, seemingly have led to the demise of their most recent relationships. Yes, it’s true that many people in relationship are afraid to commit in the beginnings of just getting[…]

“Love” On A Sunday Afternoon

The continued search for signs of intelligent life through meeting, greeting and all the preliminary rituals of dating love on a Sunday afternoon. We are so action oriented that we think of love as something to do. With Valentines day soon approaching, I thought some deep hearted comments about love, dating and the appropriate-and inappropriate[…]

The Real Difference Between a Great Lover and the Not So Much Guy!

It is a rainy Sunday afternoon and I am sitting down to write on this very important subject of, ‘What makes your lover great.’ FYI: Also mentioned in this blog are safe-sex practices for those in the dating and mating scene. Many often take sexual health risks without understanding the consequences of unsafe sex. If[…]

The Number One Way to Have a Fulfilling Relationship: Choosing Love

How can you be missing someone that never existed? No matter how much you hoped for or pretended that things weren’t all that bad, you find that you’re alone without your partner. Seeking a rock to stand on you’ve taken all you can bear and climbed up and out of the relationship. Your memory will[…]

Is Chivalry Being “Dumbed” Down?

OMG… is it true? Is chivalry really dead? It seems to be so, as reported in a recent interview and corroborated by several generations of the dating population. In this 21st century world of texting, IM’s and internet dating, where oh where has the knight in shining armor gone? It seems his white horse has[…]

10 Things Not to Say or Do on a First Date

While sitting at lunch with a long time woman friend of mine the other day, I overheard a conversation going on in the booth behind me. A man in his early 50’s was complaining to his male friend that he didn’t understand why he couldn’t meet a woman. I wondered if he was part of[…]